Adoptions of the past were usually sealed, secretive events in which there was little chance that the birthmother and child would ever cross paths in life again. This has resulted in a great deal of confusion and even heartbreak as children who were adopted grew into adults and began asking questions about their past and there was little, if any, information about their birth families. And, not knowing how their child was doing in life and if they were well and healthy was often very painful for … [Read more...]
Adoption as an Alternative to Foster Care
I’m worried my baby might be heading into Foster Care. Is Voluntary Adoption, outside of the foster care system, another option?" If you are pregnant, or have recently given birth and are taking care of your new baby now, but you are worried that your baby is going to be put in Foster Care, you should know that Adoption is still an option for you and your baby. Why Foster Care Might Get Involved It is not uncommon for new moms to struggle at home when trying to take care of a newborn baby, … [Read more...]
Can I keep my adoption plan a secret?
It used to be that if a woman put her baby up for adoption or was even considering putting her baby up for adoption, would likely be shamed by her friends and family for “taking the easy way out” or for “being selfish”. Fortunately, there is far less stigma around the idea of adoption now and far more understanding for those women who do choose adoption for their babies. We know, at Open Arms Adoption, that women who are considering the option of adoption are usually the most maternal and … [Read more...]
How can I find a same sex couple to adopt my baby?
When it comes to the adoption process, the birth mother can play a critical role in making decisions for her unborn child. As the birth mother, you may decide that you want your baby to be adopted by a loving same sex couple. It is important to clarify your preferences by ensuring that you have a solid adoption plan in place and the right assistance from Open Arms Adoption Network. Clarify Your Preferences Many women who are planning on giving up their baby for adoption are hoping to find a … [Read more...]
It’s Never Too Late: How to Put a Baby Up for Adoption
Question: "Is it ever too late to put your baby up for adoption?" Answer: No, it is never too late to place your baby for adoption. You went back and forth about it over the nine months of your pregnancy. You changed your mind every few days -- maybe every couple of hours -- about whether you should give your baby up for adoption. You felt overwhelmed by the weight of the decision until the point you gave birth, and then it was too late -- or maybe that’s what you thought. Fortunately, … [Read more...]
4 Tips to Help You Choose the Best Adoptive Parents For Your Baby
You’ve made the difficult decision to give your baby up for adoption. You feel sure that it’s the right decision for you -- and for your baby – but you still have fears, doubts and a lot of questions. Don’t worry, that’s normal. Most of those fears and doubts are probably around figuring who would be the right family to love and raise your child. After all, your decision to put your baby up for adoption is based on your love for your baby. It’s not about you -- it’s all about the baby. So, of … [Read more...]
