I Want to Give My Baby Up for Adoption but Everyone is pressuring me to Keep the Baby. What Should I Do? If you are considering giving your baby up for adoption, whether you are pregnant or have already given birth, it is a difficult decision. There are lots of factors to think about when considering your options, and sometimes what you want or may think is the right decision for you and your baby, others around you may not agree with you. This is common. We all want the support and … [Read more...]
Can I put my Baby up for Adoption if I Currently am Using or if I am Currently in Treatment?
If you are struggling with addiction now and you are pregnant, or you have recently given birth, you might be wondering if now is the right time for you to be a Mom to a new baby. If you decide that you want to look into options other than you taking the baby home and raising him/her, you may end up wanting to learn more about voluntary adoption. Your next question might be whether you can choose adoption for your baby if you are in active addiction or in treatment? And, the short answer is YES, … [Read more...]
If I Am Considering Giving My Baby Up for Adoption While I Am at the Hospital: How Does It Work?
Your Plan- The Entire Time If you are pregnant and thinking about giving up your baby for adoption, please know that we will respect your decision, and provide you with pressure-free counseling and support every step of the way. We will meet with you, face to face, and offer counseling at your convenience to help you decide if adoption is something that you would like to pursue, while never pressuring you to move forward. This is YOUR plan, and we will move as slowly or as quickly as you would … [Read more...]
Can I Keep My Adoption a Secret?
It used to be that if a woman put her baby up for adoption or was even considering putting her baby up for adoption, would likely be shamed by her friends and family for “taking the easy way out” or for “being selfish”. Fortunately, there is far less stigma around the idea of adoption now and far more understanding for those women who do choose adoption for their babies. We know, at Open Arms Adoption, that women who are considering the option of adoption are usually the most maternal and … [Read more...]
It’s Never Too Late: How to Put a Baby Up for Adoption
Question: "Is it ever too late to put your baby up for adoption?" Answer: No, it is never too late to place your baby for adoption. You went back and forth about it over the nine months of your pregnancy. You changed your mind every few days -- maybe every couple of hours -- about whether you should give your baby up for adoption. You felt overwhelmed by the weight of the decision until the point you gave birth, and then it was too late -- or maybe that’s what you thought. Fortunately, … [Read more...]
Are You Pregnant and Considering Your Options? Did You Just Have a Baby and Need Help?
For women who have just found out they are pregnant, there can be a lot to consider. Is it the right time for me to be a mother to a newborn? Should I consider giving my baby up for adoption? Am I ready to raise a child? There can be many pros and cons to these options and looking at the facts can help you gain a clear picture of your choices. Fact: Adoption is Worth Considering You’re pregnant and considering your options. Adoption is an option worth considering. You may not know what to … [Read more...]
4 Things for Birthmothers to Look for in an Adoptive Family
For women who are considering giving up their baby for adoption – there are some big questions to consider. Some women want to choose a family from our pool of waiting and approved families, while other women do not want to choose and they prefer that Open Arms chooses the perfect family for their baby. For those who want to choose an adoptive family, there are a lot of factors to consider. Birthmothers looking for adoptive families may feel overwhelmed, not know what to look for, or be … [Read more...]
I Am Struggling With a Baby at Home
Many mothers with babies or toddlers feel like they are struggling. Parenting a child or children can be difficult—especially without support. New mothers may find themselves physically, mentally, and emotionally stressed. There are also financial stresses that come with supporting a child. Every situation is unique and only you can determine if the stress has become too much. For some mothers, adoption is an option worth considering. Whether you have just given birth or are struggling to … [Read more...]
Adoption Frequently Asked Questions
Q: This pregnancy was unexpected, and I am not sure if I can be a parent right now. How can Open Arms Adoption Network help me? A: You are likely feeling overwhelmed and confused right now. An Open Arms counselor can help you work through your emotions. We offer counseling and support to help you understand all the options available, so you can decide what is the best choice. While exploring all your options, you may decide that adoption is the right choice. If you choose adoption, your … [Read more...]
